You have to change your mindset before you change your hair. You have to know that this is you and learn to love what you have. You have to be willing to go through the struggle of bad hair days, the high maintenance and dealing with the stigmas around black hair. Learn to take your time and be patient with yourself. It’s easy to find the right product or visit a natural hair salon to find a style but its hard to break away from the negative views on black hair and be confident in you own skin, so free your mind and your hair will follow.